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    Quote Originally Posted by Little Ted View Post
    Congratulations Teeja!!! What would your EDD be at this stage? My line is about the same darkness at 12dpo - which is darker than yesterday - so don't worry. If you want to be certain go and get bloods and then take another hpt tomorrow or the next day to see it get darker.
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    I think the 14th of July. Might see if I can get bloods done this morning.

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    mrsmac - I just read your post about the comments people make. I probably should add more backgound to mine. We were made to believe that our first mc was my fault, then found out we lost the twins and they were tested to be fine, then after the third loss we were still being told that it was most likely chromosomal even before they had tested. I think some practitioners 'generalise' too much based on the average woman and circumstances without taking every pregnancy and woman seriously. If the specialists had actually listened to me, they would have worked it out without the bloods just as I had.

    I do agree with you though that if it is chromosomal or ill then it is piece of mind knowing that they didn't have to be ill any longer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Teeja View Post
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    I think the 14th of July. Might see if I can get bloods done this morning.
    Sounds about right. I did up my ticker for the 15th July last night but then it dropped me back a day in how far along I was ie. Was 3 weeks 4 days and it dropped me back to 3 weeks 3 days. So I will have to see what day the 15th of July is next year to work it out properly. In the end though, I guess they will come when they come and I'll just be happy for them to stay in there until then!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Funchu View Post
    Hey @Chillies - you said you had lots of CM... did you get that normally before AF, or was it different? Oh, and congratulations if I haven't said it already (I lose track on here sometimes)
    Hey Funchu, thank you! Well I don't usually get cm before AF. It was different in that it was (TMI) kind of gummy and really white but I only got that on Tuesday. Now it's just slippery cm that is clear but feels wet. Hope this helps?? Xo

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    Quote Originally Posted by Leisylou View Post

    Had a downer this week, friends of mine dropped in to see me (haven't seen them for nine months - they live here - overseas) and they commented that they thought I would have had a baby by now seeing as I got engaged earlier this year... So I gently answered "Actually, we lost a baby not that long ago..." And they both answered, "Oh because you were so stressed... "

    I am really upset, this year has been a huge work year and there are times I have been stressed, but stress doesn't kill babies. Why do people assume that stress causes miscarriages? I really hate the implication that I did something to make my baby die that could have been avoided if I just looked after myself better or stressed less or something. Am I OK to be upset at these type of comments?
    I still get upset by these comments and always will. I think it's the way they say it so flippantly as well as the comment, it's almost dismissive! Anyway hugs to u Leisylou and yes I'll change my signature LOL

    Looks like the start of a BFP to me Teeja =)

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    12dpobfn *SIGH* no sign of AF yet she would normally have started rearing her head by now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chillies View Post
    Hey Funchu, thank you! Well I don't usually get cm before AF. It was different in that it was (TMI) kind of gummy and really white but I only got that on Tuesday. Now it's just slippery cm that is clear but feels wet. Hope this helps?? Xo
    Maybe this is whats happening to me too!

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    If stress killed babies I would definitely not be still pregnant right now. How ridiculous and insensitive God people annoy me sometimes.

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    LeisyLou, that is incredibly insensitive and completely untrue. *hugs* Honestly, unless someone has been through a miscarriage they would have no idea. They say the most stupid things.
    After my m/c my boss tried to make me feel better by saying my miscarriage happened for a reason and then went on to tell me about two young men he knew who died in a freak accident while mountain climbing, and that there was no reason for their death. It really didn't seem like the right time to be saying any of that to me. It definitely didn't make me feel better about my own loss..

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    Well my temp is now below the coverline at 15dpo so you might as well colour me bfn :-( on to cycle 6 I am guessing next AF is due 27th


 

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