This has reminded me of a baby shower I was invited to for someone that I hadn't seen in years. They received some 'cheap' (kmart) clothing from their grandmother, a PENSIONER, & turned to me & said 'I'll hide this stuff at the bottom of the drawers, I'm glad you came, you at least know how to give decent presents' 😳. Gross!!!
I think the 'present grabs' are usually fairly consistent with the persons overall personality.