Spoke to the midwives, they are giving us a bright orange sign to stick on our CLOSED door that says 'Ask at nurses station before entering this room' and then when people ask their answer will be 'no'. Lol. We agreed and put on my file that no staff member is to give out any info on us whatsoever, we will text people allowed to visit so there is no need for them to give any info on us to anyone.
They said if anyone just walks in past closed door and curtain to immediately buzz them and they'll remove them.
Feel better, but still hope they don't just walk in past the closed door and curtain. Hopefully our vagueness about when I'm due etc will mean we avoid that...
Thanks for all your suggestions!!!