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    Default Looks like even more heartbreak-please share some stories of hope to help me through

    Hi, I am sitting here feeling constantly sick with worry. Heavy hearted because at our 6week 2day scan on Monday there was no heartbeat. I am to go in for another scan next Monday, and am slowly going insane in the meantime, getting very little sleep and cannot help thinking that yet again I will have another baby cut out of me. In the last 2 years I have had an ectopic, losing my right tube, 2 chemical pregnancies a missed miscarriage at 12 weeks requiring 2 d&c's due to the first not working and then another 2 D&C's after losing yet another baby a few months ago due to things adhering to my uterus. We have endured so much heartache, and my body has endured so much trauma and loss, I do not know if I can bare yet another D&C to have yet another baby cut out of me. I fear the worst as it seems to be the pattern with us and struggle to believe we may be in the 10% minority that don't see a heartbeat at this stage - as our highly experienced sonographer is hoping we will be, and feel it is inevitable we will have to go through yet another IVF cycle - too many to count. At the moment I guess I am just hoping there may be some stories of hope out there, not just that this little one may make it, but of some other wonderful women who have endured so much pain to finally get their little one. I feel like I have lost so many little babies now that I am almost certainly cursed. I would rather not be falling pregnant at all than going through this. Thank you for reading.

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    I have no stories but through ur words can feel ur pain. I am so sorry for ur losses. This could be a positive outcome yet, I truly hope it is for u. Take care.

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    No stories either but couldn't read and run.

    Sorry for the loss of all those babies, life can be so unfair.

    Wishing you the best of luck with your upcoming scan, just keep one foot in front of the other, huge hugs xxxxx

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    i am sorry you have gone through so much.
    I have had 7 miscarriages , losing 8 babies.. I have 2 children, conceived before and after my losses..
    Please dont give up trying, please dont stop believing that you will one day hold your baby..
    I am just a pm away if you need to chat ever and I really wish you all the best.

    my heart breaks for you as i know how hard it is...

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    I have no stories, but couldn't read and not post.

    I am so sorry for your losses. You are such a strong woman, all the very best for your scan I hope everything turns out ok for you and you are in that 10% xxx

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    Big hugs @Alittleray. While I've never had a miscarriage we did have 9 IVF cycles over 8 years (transferring 18 embies in total). We had totally given up and were only given a 1% chance of our 9th cycle working. Amazingly it ended in a BFP. I then started bleeding at 13 weeks and ended up having 3 blood transfusions and an iron infusion and was on bed rest for the entire 2nd trimester.

    I am typing this as I watch my 6 week old miracle sleep.

    Don't give up, miracles do happen. Also it is not uncommon not to see a heartbeat at 6 weeks, so it is not over yet.

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    Thanks for all of the caring posts. Just want Monday to be here already. DHs birthday tomorrow and I know his heart is breaking too. Praying for a miracle, but hard to believe one is possible when the odds seem forever set against us. I must try to stop being negative - it's not my style, but it's getting hard to remain upbeat.

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    Wishing you all the best for tmw- hugs to you

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    How distressing. All the best hun xo

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    Just wanted to send big hugs I am so sorry for all that you have been through your an amazing strong women.

    Please don't give up stay positive although I have never experienced a loss at my 6 week scan with ds2 all they could see was a yolk sack and I was told that it was unlikely that my pregnancy would continue went back in for another scan and there was a heart beat.

    I will be praying for you and your baby and some much deserved good news xxx

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