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    Default Vent- shocked and angry

    I joined a dating site with my girlfriend last week to 'get back into the game', as she put it.

    Today I found DD's bio dad on there. His profile states that he has no children. It has absolutely rocked me to my foundations. I know that he wants nothing to do with her, he hasnt seen her for months and pays $32/month in CS. But to see him deny her very existence, in black and white, on a dating website has just shocked me to my core.

    I just have no words.

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    Oh that's just vile, I can imagine how very hurt and angry you must be feeling for your DD

    Sassy had a similar thread over the week end, there are so many dead beat 'parents' out there.

    It's his loss and your DD is better off not having such a horrible person in her life. She is fortunate to have one loving parent in her life and when chips are down hold on to that thought. xxxx

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    I read sassys thread and my heart went out to her and her dd. WHY are some men (and women too) like this?

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    I wish I knew, I think the majority of good parents wonder this as well.

    You can't change other people alas! It's a reflection on him. A rather gross one. I would be hoping a person like that stays well and truely away from my DD, she has you and I'm not sure if you are partnered but if you are not hopefully at some stage you can bring a beautiful example of what a man is into her life.

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    Hugs. I have not long ago been through the same thing with FOB wife knowing that DS is his but he wont accept that. He denys anything about DS and always will. If his family found out about DS, they would disown FOB.

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    I'm sorry. It's an awful situation to be in.

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    Oh yes

    The reason he has probably listed himself as having no children is probably because it saves him having the very revealing conversation with somebody as to why he doesn't see her, smart on his side really, cause who would want to date that Prince Charming

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    Big hugs.

    Would it be worse if he said he DID have a child and pretended to be father of the year? Either way he's an a***.

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    Some men just don't think....
    I am sure he is probably thinking he will get more women to say that he has no kids ...but I think it the opposite for a man to acknowledge that they have and love there children to bits single or not ...

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    How truly heartbreaking, thankfully seen by you and not by your DD! What goes around comes around and I can't really imagine anyone liking to much why he lied to them if he actually gets serious with anyone... Unless he thinks this will get him more dates (thinking like a heartless selfish b*sta*d)?


 

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