Ok so im just kinda having a vent and also wondering how other people would feel in this situation
Was really good friends with a lady for about 4 years.... we only use to communicate over fb and have catch ups at each others house etc
We never really saw each others partners as they were at work when we would catch up... but we had met before....
We will call my friend jill and her partner ben
Ben had cheated on jill numerous times years ago that she found out about but she remained with him
Ben and jill werent friends on fb... ben would not add her (even though they lived together and had kids)
Ben had added me though been friends on fb for about 2 years..
Ben out of the blue messages me and just asks how I am.. General chat about the kids his new job etc...
Chat fizzled out soon after.
Few weeks later the same chat occurs
He likes few of my pics on fb
And again the same chats a week or so later
Chats again... but this time he starts complaining about jill leaving him with the kids while she goes out
I say ohh she deserves a break type thing
Few weeks later he starts another convo saying I should go out to town with him and his guy friends.... and that he wants to get in bed with me ...
Just out of the blue.
I said he was disgusting and asked if jill knew he was talking to me..
He says no..
So I spent 2 days thinking of how I should mention this to jill...
When jill and I were having a chat over fb I mentioned him chatting to me and she started going crazy asking questions. .. I hadnt yet mentioned anything that he had said that was inappropriate... I end up telling her and she didn't believe me
She said I was lying and trying to break them up etc she deleted me from fb and refused to talk to me...
That was about 16months ago...
I sent her a message saying im sorry about what happened and would like to be friends again etc and she told me to pi $$ off.
Do you think I have done anything wrong? ?
I didn't initiate any of the conversations between ben I didn't make any inappropriate comments and ended the convo when he did. Why I she like this to me??
How would you react??
I know it sounds high school but it irritates me