How does everyone cope with friends announcing their pregnancies? Feeling pretty heartbroken & angry at the world tonight. Friends of ours emailed to tell us they were pregnant with twins. Their first was from ivf they got pregnant 2nd transfer & she is 1 this pregnancy was natural. It's a real kick in the guts. They are going to have their 3rd before we are even blessed with a child. Oh & did I tell you all what I do for a job...I'm a nurse in a neonatal intensive care unit. Life just isnt fair.