Can someone please give me a bit of advice before I return DDs fathers call.
DD is 2.5 and has seen her bio father once since she was 10 months old, he lives interstate. The last month or two he's been calling occasionally to talk to her but she doesn't really know who he is, I've tried explaining it the best I can but she never wants to speak to him on the phone.
Anyway he emailed me this morning asking if him and his girlfriend (whom DD has never met) can come over for a weekend to see her. He CCd his girlfriend in on this email.
This is the girl he was cheating on me with. I'm not so concerned about my feelings, I am wondering if him and his girlfriend turning up as 2 virtual strangers to DD is in her best interests? If he wants to start building a relationship with DD I think that's good but surely he'd work on that first before bringing the girlfriend?
This is also the girlfriend who has apparently 'banned' him from seeing DD.
I really don't know what to do/tell him??