Hi, there seems to be a massive baby boom in our office, three of us are pregnant, that is three - plus me.
in addition three other staff have decided they are moving on next month. and i am 11 weeks (mind you, it took me 22 months to conceive, and i had an early m/c when i conceived at 18 months) and a lot of ppl are aware of my infertility history.
Everyone is sort of freaking out about so many ppl leaving at once and someone just asked me 'what about you how you going with that?' and shes my friend so i was kind of smiling, i couldnt hide it, i didnt say it, but yeah, she guessed.
what do i do? do i tell my manager now before they catch wind of it? my friend promised she wouldnt tell anyone but you know how that goes right! oh btw, my manager is also one of the three who is pregnant lol.
i am 11 wks tomorrow, i intended to wait till after my 12 week scan results (have scan on 16th of sept, results that same week) so by then i will be nearly 14 weeks.
what should i do? i want to be the one telling everyone, i dont want them to find out through gossip