Yes, not much fun doing it month after month and no bfp. My DH was leaving bedtime til really late and so I was wiped by the end of o week the last months we were bd before the last bfp!
We both know it's a means to an end. DH also knows that due to our pregnancies being high risk, we have been told not to bd - so it's his last chance for a looong time if it works! ie. I think it's now been 3 months since we bd'd! And the time dh really wanted to bd was when we were told to avoid at all costs...maybe reverse psychology would work!