Thanks everyone for your input
Our original idea was for us to pick one name each, but dh just keeps saying he doesn't like anything on my list. I'm not sure if he's teasing me or not, but it's getting to the time to start narrowing down the list and he's still on at me about my names.
I do like Lily, it was my pick of a girls name when pregnant with ds.
I think in my line of work, I've just seen so many Lily's, with so many types of spellings and variations of the name.
i also love the suggestion of ds picking a name, but he's a little young, 18months. I could still give him the list and see what he does with it
Thank you again for all the suggestions and advice.