What I think is fair for us.
I do the vast majority of the child related caring. If they wake at night - I get up. I will bath them most nights. I put them to bed every night. I'm pretty much responsible for them 24/7 unless he specifically takes them out of the house. But katelyn is incredibly clingy to me, and jasper goes through patches of being clingy to me, so there's not a lot of choice in that the household runs smoother if I'm meeting their needs.
I do more laundry than him because I'm home to be able to do it.
I can cook, and more importantly, I can manage a food budget, so I do the majority of the cooking. I also wash most of the dishes.
But, he does all the yard work and takes care of the car (inside and out). On the weekend we share things like dusting, vacuuming, general cleaning and tidying the house, thought he'll do more cleaning in the garage/office and I'll do bedrooms, kitchen and living spaces. We also do the grocery shopping together.
We probably have the balance right because I feel like he should do more and he feels like he does more than enough.
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