I do the school run, daycare run, grocery shopping and cooking. I also do mine and the kids washing, fold and put away. DH packs and empties dishwasher and does his own washing and irons his own shirts. Cleaner does the rest: mop, vacuum, toilets, bathrooms, clean out fridge, windows..etc. When I was a single mother with one child I did everything and coped fairly well. As soon as DH moved in and baby #2 came along, we got a cleaner as he cant expect me to be his maid.