I joined up to the forum for some advice and support.
I'm 28 & married with three children, 6,5 & 3.
My husband and I have been together for 8& 1/2 years...
some good and bad times.
most recently things have been very bad. At the beginning of the year he began to threaten me, I found out he was talking to other girls (much younger) online, he receives private texts ad wouldn't tell me who it was.
His threats were that he was going to push me down the stairs and to the worst one of 'I'm going to kill you' all said I front of our kids.
long story short, he didnt threaten me again until 3 weeks ago. Things had been good as he really tried.
but yelling and abuse has been coming back and I am so tired of it.
I found out two days ago that he has gone and got a high interest loan, 30% for bad credit so he can buy this stupid car. It's got problems and people have warned him but he's spoilt and gets what he wants no matter what.
At tax time we agreed we would save our money and go on a holiday to melbourne with our kids. I booked the airfares and he went and bought two project cars with his money. $1700 for two cars that just sit there coz he doesn't know anything about them. (Childish & selfish)
This is so unfair or am I just unreasonable like he tells me?
he does things behind my back and I don't believe we have a marriage.
we are currently separated due to this and I don't know what to do.
im scared of being a single mum!!!
i feel like I've lost myself and don't know where I should be. I have no support my parents don't live in the same state.