I put both my babies in their cot in their rooms from birth and have never let them sleep in my bed. I can't sleep properly with them in the same room as me, and I love my sleep too much.
I make my 3.5 year old daughter have a nap every day and go to bed at 7pm because I like to have time to myself.
I use my in laws as babysitters because I don't want to pay for child care.
I don't let my daughter play with any toys that are messy, and all of her toys must be kept in her room. I am a bit obsessed with having a clean and tidy house and don't let my daughter mess it up. I throw away any toys that might be messy, such as play doh.
My son won't take a bottle of EBM, so if I am drinking wine I just keep breastfeeding him.