Ohh, just to add to my credentials in case anyone wants to nominate me for mother of the year.. I found out I was UTD at 21 weeks. I has been drinking to excess an average of four nights a week and smoking pot nightly up until that point. I thought I was getting fat and attributed the two mornings I had vomited to drinking too much the night before.
I quit smoking as soon as I found out I was preggers.. but since DS weaned I am another who enjoys the drunken smoke way too much!