Do you let school kids make their own lunches?
Mine generally do the night before school or in the morning (4,6,9 and 13 and miss 2 helps if she needs a lunch box for playgroup etc.)
It's not mean is it? I like them to be as independent as possible and obviously they know what they're allowed but they have some options each day.
The three oldest 13, 9 and 6 iron their school clothes too if needed (generally only ds1 needs to as he goes to a private school.)
Ok or too much?