I don't think it's that frenchie. I think it's mental health services having so few impatient beds that's there's often a sense of 'why should they come here and use our beds when they have their own region'. I know it's hard not to take it personally. They probably shouldn't have told you about the fight over where you're going, rather just tell you that they're still trying to find a bed. A bit of tact in this kind of situation often goes a long way.