Bit of a rant but I'm at my wits end & dunno how to get through to my partner
This mornings example he took my last $20 out of my wallet whilst I was half asleep for smokes (tailors) and now I'm left with $20 for myself until next fortnight. I've asked him to smoke rollies & he's avoiding it n refusing to dating he likes tailors better ,yet I'm expected to smoke rollies & go without the luxury of tailors yet he's entitled to it ? I feel there is a huge unfair expectation that I'm supposed to sacrifice & go without things luxuries because we can't afford it but he's entitled to them eg smokes ,brought lunches & take away ,things for his car etc. I'm also only getting FTB & put of that I pay for all the bills& groceries except rent & his credit card & car insurance Leaving me flat broke $40 to myself a fortnight if I'm lucky which mostly gets spent on things as need like milk bread nappies etc. yet he can just spend $ on whatever he wants & impulse buys ? Yet I have to budget every cent & make sure all the bills are paid food in the house etc I feel this is really unfair & no matter how I put it he isn't getting it or just doesn't care. Why should I have to carry all the responsibility & make sacrifices but he doesn't ?? So frustrating.
Any advice how to deal with this ???