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    I would have been seething too. So glad you got them home so fast

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    It's so frustrating that he would do that. I would rather just have them. I feel sick in my tummy cos tonight is his night with them. I don't want them to go. I want my babies home safe with me

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    Oh no I'd be so so upset and angry!! Does he understand why you don't want them alone with her? If he knows that about her isn't he concerned about leaving them with her? I'd ask to keep them home tonight since he had them on one of your nights..

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    Quote Originally Posted by SummerFun View Post
    Oh no I'd be so so upset and angry!! Does he understand why you don't want them alone with her? If he knows that about her isn't he concerned about leaving them with her? I'd ask to keep them home tonight since he had them on one of your nights..
    He just keeps repeating that she's changed. I said well good I hope she has. But I know that say for instance i thought someone who molested a child had 'changed' I'd be happy for them - but I still wouldn't put my children in a circumstance where I could be proven wrong.

    He has assured me if he ever finds himself stuck again he'll call me. But honesty has never been his strong point so his word is about as permanent as a whiteboard marker.

    Tonight she won't be around them as she has her own children on Wednesdays. But I've told him that if I find out that she is alone with my boys again I'll be looking into some kind of child protection order or whatever I can.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Theboys&me View Post
    He just keeps repeating that she's changed. I said well good I hope she has. But I know that say for instance i thought someone who molested a child had 'changed' I'd be happy for them - but I still wouldn't put my children in a circumstance where I could be proven wrong.

    He has assured me if he ever finds himself stuck again he'll call me. But honesty has never been his strong point so his word is about as permanent as a whiteboard marker.

    Tonight she won't be around them as she has her own children on Wednesdays. But I've told him that if I find out that she is alone with my boys again I'll be looking into some kind of child protection order or whatever I can.
    Rightfully so too I think! I hope he wakes up to himself. Your poor babies, having to be around her. It doesn't have to be physical for them to be affected by her.. Is she likely to be emotionally nasty to them as well? I do wonder if its an insecurity thing. No excuse whatsoever for her prior behaviours but it makes me wonder why she's like that with step children but not her own.
    You're a great mummy and you stick to your guns nothing else matters more than your babies being safe.


 

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