Welcome and Congrats Milly888 so wonderful you can join us!! I think we cycled together in June/July!!
So sorry hear about the MS Amps and Bedlover, Im a shocking puker and cry every time, I feel for you.
ABH Id suggest a bottle of non alcoholic wine (disguised if possible) and the "spirits" idea is perfect too just pretend you pre mixed some at home and just drink soda water.