We (correction I!!) have spilled the beans a bit too!
Both sets of family / siblings, my bestie and my PA all know already.
My last pregnancy we had just finished telling everyone - my work did a big announcement on the day I ended up in hospital, and bub died the next day. And that was at 17 weeks.
I guess I keep thinking about who I will want support from should something go wrong, and these are the people I will tell.
I really felt awkward everyone at work knowing and then being told what had happened, so will be keeping it from them for as long as possible. Although the only reason I told them last time at 17 weeks was that people kept looking at my tummy as I was showing quite a lot!!