I'm actually hoping they find something in my lap. Then at least we have a reason, as opposed to 'we don't know what's wrong'.
That's what hubby struggles with Del. he can't fathom *why* we're not pregnant when 'nothing is wrong'. He wants to put his fix-it hat on, get it sorted and move on.
Morning ladies, I had a lap earlier this year & trust me I put it off & put it off because I was terrified of what they might find. Afterwards I was kicking myself that I hadn't had it done sooner. They found a lot of endo & numerous cysts with mine...but the doctor told me it was that bad, which prevented me from getting preg or my body being able to grow a bub. I was really glad we had a reason why things hadn't been working. They had removed it all & now we have been given the all clear to try again
Also I know how u feel re lttc, I had a friend who was whinging to me that she was infertile after 2 months of trying...she then got a bfp later thy month....it was very hard for me to listen too when I was thinking 'are u freaking kidding me??'.
Teeja - I really hope youre not out this month
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