So, DH has alwats been a procrastinar and its turning me into a nagging wife and wevare driving eachbother mad. We sre doing renovations ourselves and I hsd huge reservation s about it , duevto his procrastination, and sure enough we have been living in a building site now for going on 3 years! I am getting so fed up! And to make it worse, he will tell me it'll be finished at xyz and I believe him! We are building in our elevated house to be 2 story... I was t9ld would b fin8shed at Xmas, then told before vDS born. Now next xmas. Our lounge room has had the entire wall exposed for 8 months! I was told Jan, then march, then july and now its just in a few weeks every time I ask him. He procrastinated on getting a vasectomy. ..and now we have 3:kids. Meant to be getting a great job starting anywhere Aug to Oct hadent even but application in. Anyway. I flipped out today about the state of the entry to our house...a rubble of concrete he jackhammered up and didn't move and now he's mad at me! At what point can I say enough is enough! I am sick of living inva half finished old house with no god damn money! I am too embarrassed to have people over and its dangerous for kids anyway. He took 2 years longer to build our verandah then what he told me and the whole time he kept saying in x months in y months. Even now its 99% finished. Need painting roof panels and power and he has no plans to look at any of that. That's the other thing. He does everything 99% and never finishes. He got all they through a degree and dropped out in the last 6 months. Also I am the absolute opposite and when I set goals they are achieved which is why i have done so much in my life. This really is making me miserable and starting to affect our marriage but if I raise it he just gets his back up. This is more of a vent then anything else but any suggestions would be much appreciated.
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