So I am having an elective c section in 6 days!!!!
DS will be 20 months. When we made he decision for another baby DS was an angel child but seems to now be in the 'toddler' stage. He seems alert enough to misbehave but doesn't understand reason just yet so an awkward time.
I seem to suddenly have realised I will be wrangling him and trying to take care of a newborn. I keep looking around our tiny living room not even knowing where I am going to put this one. And I am really struggling to get through the housework and if I have appointments struggling to get out the door on time. This is just with one.
I am terrified of being stuck in the house unable to get out. DS at the moment is so messy and rough. I can't leave new baby on the floor - where can I put it? I have been struggling a bit with this pregnancy which I think is why I struggle with housework but I am not sure if that is true or just an excuse.
So many other mothers seem to be do much more on top of it then me - I don't for a second think I am the worst mother in the world but I am certainly not the best.
Can anyone else whose had 2 under 2 give me any advice? Is it as hard as I'm imagining? Any tips to make it easier?