so i've been with my husband for 9 years, we became friends with another couple a few years ago, to cut a long story short my husband and g'ood friend' started an affair 8 weeks ago...she is married with 3 children, we have 3 children and i'm currently 29 weeks pregnant
our marriage is over as he said he would give it another go but wanted to stay 'friends' with the other woman - i said that couldnt happen as wouldn't work..
now they are together he has left me and she has left her husband - 7 children (inc unborn) caught up in this mess
i never saw it coming
i want advice on how to deal with my ex friend seeing my children, plan is every other weekend, no problem with my husband seeing kids whenever but i do have real issues seeing/imagining someone who was a really good friend playing happy families with my FAMILY in fact i think it will destroy me as i want to stay as a family...do not want this break up. my kids are all under 6 as are hers
i know this is something i have to try and survive just wondered if anyone had any tips on how to survive it- i literally feel like i'm drowning how do i deal with this hurt and pain?