I would use formula quite happily. I prefer BM though.
If I had a close friend who offered BM during a time where I may need to accept it, I would choose that, I wouldn't feel comfortable taking it from a stranger though. I'm sure their milk would be fine but it just makes me a little uneasy.
I wouldn't mind looking into donating actually, I have a chest freezer full of ebm, have had to throw some away which is a shame.. Have even made the 3 and 5 year olds ebm milkshakes (although I copped a LOAD of criticism for this)..
As long as baby is fed, happy, gaining weight, etc, Mum is doing a top job no matter how she chooses to feed and should never feel guilty for feeding her baby..
Seriously, this motherhood judgment stuff is just cr@p.
All the best for next week Sonja hoomans are strange creatures. Try not to let them get to you
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