Would love some opinions on this one. Three years ago I moved out of Brisbane to Redcliffe. My 10 year old daughter did not want to change schools and so decided to stay in Brisbane with her father during the week and me on weekends. Since moving to Redcliffe, I have had two more gorgeous children with my new partner (15mth old DD and newborn DS). Here's where things get tricky - I'm finding the commute with the two babies really stressful - not to mention the cost of tolls, petrol and wear and tear on the car. My question is, IS IT REASONABLE TO ASK THE EX TO DO AT LEAST SOME OF THE PICK UPS AND DROP OFFS??? And if so, how often?Part of me thinks he should share the driving and another part of me thinks I should shoulder it all as I was the one that moved away. Help!