Ugh, ladies I read these and my heart breaks for you, god some men are just real winners huh?? Bunch of useless ball skins they are. (I won't be bitter forever) Thanks for sharing your stories, I've been feeling like such an idiot, how could I let this happen, and ashamed too. After everything with him, and this still happened after I'd left him?? Agh, I'm dreading my parents.( But my mum gets urges to snatch strangers babies to cuddle so I'm sure she will be happy too.) pesca77 I'm not sure exactly how to pm, but I'd love to chat. Sounds like you were at the same crossroad. It's positive to hear you talk about your lil boy.