Haha well I'm glad by posting isn't too annoying!
I completely understand his "I just want one" argument but also understand how it can sound pretty lame as an excuse. The FS said smoking lowers the quality of eggs and sperm because the blood around them has toxins - makes sense!! Hopefully he comes around and will make an effort! I'm still not sure how DF will do. I have something stopping me but she doesn't wish she had her tonsils out too lol. Trouble is they took hers out when she was a kid.
I think the more we talk baby and look at baby things, the easier she finds it to cut down because she knows we won't TTC until she's quit. Once all the money is there the only thing stopping us would be that really.
Two girls, one dream and baby you are it!