Oh Butterfly, i'm sorry. The situation sucks let alone having to go through all the pain as well. It does sound like you're in a good place. Busy is good for me too, i just kick in to action mode to keep my mind off things.
I haven't heard of Molloy?? Who are you with now (sorry if you've already said). I made an appointment with Phillip Hall (as well as appointment with Wazza in April).
Take care lovely