Cuddle - personally I wasn't going to give up until I knew I had tried everything. I have a fs who was willing to mix things up and every time I went to see her she would make new suggestions. I trusted her and was willing to spend the bucks. She did keep telling me it was my eggs that were the problem but she was never definitive on that point, so I found it hard to believe. In my head my husbands smoking addiction was holding us back. It took a lot of hard work getting him healthy and I put as much energy into that as the ivf process as a whole. I have done 8 stim cycles in 2 years and what kept me going was that I got pregnant the first time, so why couldnt I again? What state are you in and who is your specialist? Do you feel he/she is working hard for you. Have you tried dhea? What type of cycles have you done? As you said yourself your cycles are getting better but you you need to get the eggs out. Are you willing to try a more progressive doctor, maybe Dr Nick or Dr Lynn in melbourne. A lot of doctors do Skype appointments now, you could enquire.
Ann congratulations! My 2 that went in were early blasts and I was a bit disappointed that they weren't more developed. In the past I've had hatching blasts and they haven't stuck.