Hi Sunny, I do actually have immune issues...High NK cells and so I have intralipid therapy with my cycles. I was tested for loads of other things after our first IVF failed but that's the only issue identified so far. My FS is pretty proactive so I'm happy to stay with him for now.
It's nice to hear you say 'only 40'...hehe
My AMH is crazy high for someone my age without PCOS (54.3!) so I get follicles and eggs but a good egg seems to be eluding me. I am totally considering an egg donor as a very realistic option but we plan to re-assess that at the end of the year if we're not pregnant yet.
Thanks Ann17 and Team Panda too for your nice comments, and to anyone else I may have missed.
It has really helped me this week to be able to vent here and have your support.