Fingers crossed for you Springy! My heart, welcome, sorry to hear of your long road, I think most of us in here have been through a lot so you will find a lot of shoulders to cry on. A few girls from this thread have gone the ED route, I'd have no qualms doing it but my hubby wants to give our own eggs a couple more chances. After that ( if it comes to that) we'll look at a donor cycle in South Africa.
There is a whole big section on donor eggs in SA in the donor egg section.