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    Unhappy I had sex and the condom broke i dont know what to do

    Hi My names leah i'm 15 i live in perth. i dont know if this is the right place to go but i had sex with my boyfriend yesterday - this wasn't the first time. I didn't really know what sex meant until now when its to late. I know i'm to young and many of you will say how bad it is i understand that.

    Anyway here is the story...
    My boyfriend came over and we had sex we used a condom and it was put on like always. My boyfriend finnished when it had um fallen out.. and we noticed that the whole condom had split in half this had never happened before and I watched him put it on so i know it wasn't tampered with except i could fell some of the seamen on me and i found some on the bed due to the fact he finnished outside of me. Despite this some may have gotten in there or he could have ejaculated a tiny bit during.

    My first reaction was to ring the local pharmacies and ask how old you have to be to get the morning after pill they said i couldnt get it because i am not yet 16 unless i get parental permission. I know most of the advice will be to tell my parents but i cant. My mother is abusive when things like that happen and i dont know my dad.

    My period are very odd. My cycle is average 65-80 days 3x the normal amount of days. my cycle has been within this amount for the past 4 cycles. My last period was from the 19th - 22nd of june and the day we had intercourse was yesterday the 18th of july.

    please help and avoid telling me how stupid i am i already know

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    Quote Originally Posted by leahberry View Post
    Hi My names leah i'm 15 i live in perth. i dont know if this is the right place to go but i had sex with my boyfriend yesterday - this wasn't the first time. I didn't really know what sex meant until now when its to late. I know i'm to young and many of you will say how bad it is i understand that.

    Anyway here is the story...
    My boyfriend came over and we had sex we used a condom and it was put on like always. My boyfriend finnished when it had um fallen out.. and we noticed that the whole condom had split in half this had never happened before and I watched him put it on so i know it wasn't tampered with except i could fell some of the seamen on me and i found some on the bed due to the fact he finnished outside of me. Despite this some may have gotten in there or he could have ejaculated a tiny bit during.

    My first reaction was to ring the local pharmacies and ask how old you have to be to get the morning after pill they said i couldnt get it because i am not yet 16 unless i get parental permission. I know most of the advice will be to tell my parents but i cant. My mother is abusive when things like that happen and i dont know my dad.

    My period are very odd. My cycle is average 65-80 days 3x the normal amount of days. my cycle has been within this amount for the past 4 cycles. My last period was from the 19th - 22nd of june and the day we had intercourse was yesterday the 18th of july.

    please help and avoid telling me how stupid i am i already know
    Do you have a 16 year old friend who could get the morning after pill for you?

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    Also, I think maybe a trip to your local clinic is in order for some family planning advice and some STI testing, just to be safe. If you can't talk to mum, do you have another adult that you trust?

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    Or a aunt or uncle or something that you can trust?

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    Contact a women's health clinic and explain your situation urgently

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    You could contact the Family Planning Centre in Perth. I found this contact info for you. http://www.fpwa.org.au/contact-us/

    Give them a call and explain what happened and they will advise you on what to do. Don't beat yourself up, these things happen. You need to do something quickly though just in case so ring them first thing tomorrow. This is not the end of the world but I believe you have learnt a big lesson from it.

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    how many days untill i cant take the pill anymore?

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    I think you have 72hrs? Sooner the better though.

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    Yeah 72hours the sooner the better

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    Quote Originally Posted by leahberry View Post
    how many days untill i cant take the pill anymore?
    The info I read says you can take it up to 5 days after but the effectiveness really decreases a lot after 72 hrs so the sooner the better.

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