DS will only fall asleep in our arms for day sleeps and night sleeps.
I don't mind the cuddles, however if he wakes during a day nap or at 2am, he requires the arms to fall asleep. Sometimes he won't go back into the cot so I have to bring him into bed with me. I don't mind co-sleeping, but ds2 is usually in our bed, so it's hard.
I dont know what to do.
Patting doesn't work as he just screams until i pick him up.