Sh72 - I am so sorry Hun. How disappointing for you both.
Please change GPs the last thing you need is for an unsupportive doctor. I agree totally with JodieW, your GPs conduct was unprofessional and if it had been said to me I would not have been so accommodating. In fact it would be a comment that would lead me to make a report to the equivalent of the Health Quality Complaints Commission. As both an RN with subsequent legal quals, I find her comment completely abhorrent. Please take good care and be kind to yourself xxx.
In so far as legality, it is completely legal to go to SA for egg donation. The conflicting legislation is what prohibits the importation of the embryos. After all, most donor sperm in this country comes from the USA, with the ID of the donor being known. I am also aware of a Brissy clinic contemplating the importation of frozen donor eggs.
I am with Rainbow 'just flip them off' and surround yourself with positive, supportive beautiful people. Xx