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    Hi Everyone,

    I just need to get my feelings down. My partner and I separated last Friday. Basically, we have been more like roommates for quite a while now. I thought it was just a phase that we could work through but he thought otherwise. The other issue is that I am a full time uni student and he doesn't understand that by me studying, our future would be a whole lot brighter.

    I am trying to keep things amicable and he says he is too but I don't feel that he is trying as much as I am. We have a two year old daughter and we are both committed to raising her in a happy environment.

    I also have a feeling that he is already sending flirty texts to another girl..
    It's only been a week! I just don't understand how you can be with someone for over four years, have a child together and have such little respect.

    I want to keep things friendly but not if I'm the only one making an effort to do so.

    Has anyone had a similar experience?

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    My husband left me 5 weeks ago. We have a 5 month old son, and since he left he's been very rude and disrespectful so I know how you feel. Sometimes it's hard to keep things civil if you keep giving and giving but getting nothing but cr@p in return. I hope he starts treating you better and I hope you have a good support system to help you get through this hard time. Feel free to pm me any time if you want to chat *hugs*

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    mummybynature is offline Loving every moment of motherhood <3
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    Oh gosh, that sucks

    We are clearly both better off!

    I have decided to use this time to improve myself and get to know myself again, I miss me!

    He can have whatever trash he finds, as long as they don't get anywhere near my daughter or even mention her name!

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