Oh Gampa I'm so sorry, I hope baby coco has a good sleep for you tonight.
Sorry you're having such a tough time Gampa, hope it improves for you soon XX Hugs
Oh Gampa so sorry to hear ;( let us know how things go and vent away
Gampa I'm so sorry. Absolutely vent away here. It's important that you have somewhere to turn particularly if you haven't announced to anyone. We're all here for you. Do let us know how you go. You will be my thoughts all weekend xx
Thinking of you gampa. Hope you're doing ok and coco has allowed you some rest over the weekend xx
How you going now gampa? Hope it's improved somewhat xx
Good luck tomorrow gampa. I really hope you get some good news xx
I'm so sorry Gampa. Hope your doing ok after today and know that we are all thinking of you. Big hugs.
thanks for all the kind thoughts and wishes.
sadly we had a miscarriage - knew it was too good to be true and ended up having an emergency D&C on Sunday.
i have been down about it all, ESP as my husband was no nonchalant about it all. It's as though he's relieved and hasn't been supportive at all. He hasn't even asked how I am since Sunday.
In regards to other people's questions re relationships and babies - yes your world turns upside down and your relationship changes. My husband feels trapped and wants his old life back. At times I have been thinking of leaving him as he can be so self centered. For example - we are going to tressilian this Friday as baby Elizabeth just parties all night!- but he decided he has to pick up his dad from the airport. We live at least an hour from the airport and so that means he'll be gone the whole morning from 8-4 by the time he's settled his dad into his aunts place. So I'm expected to look after the baby in tressilian and he just P&&&& off somewhere and I do all the work. He refuses to get someone else to pick him up and he gets really angry at me for even suggesting an alternatives. He just wants to do what he wants when he wants and doesn't consider the family. Another example he goes running for up to 2 hours in the evening and leaves me after work to look after the two so he can turn up at night and they are both in bed. To be honest I'm really down and thinking of leaving him.i want to go back to nz where I have some family to support me. Unfortunately I am not a super mum, and I can't balance 50 hours of work, all the cooking, all the cleaning, and all the care and organisation of the house and any etc on my own. I wish I was more capable sometimes. Does anyone else have these issues?
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