The last 2 nights Orlando has been wide awake and has pushed his bedtime out to much later - like between 8-9pm when usually around 7pm. I've decided tomorrow will change his nap time in the afternoon - he's usually down from 3.30-5.30 give or take so tomorrow I'm going to try and get him down around the 2.30 mark and see if that extra 1/2hr-1hr makes a difference. He definitely seems more awake for a longer period and is definitely stretching out to past 2 hours being awake. I think he is pretty close to getting his first tooth which is maybe why he's been grizzly the last 2 days plus he just had his injections!
As an FYI if anyone's interested orlandos routine is
Bedtime at around 7-7.30, sleeps until around 6.30-7am but needs to be resettled at least once-twice during the night
Catnap at around 9am
I usually take him for a walk and he'll sleep for another 45 mins ish in the pram
Catnap after lunch around 12.45-1
Sleep from 3/3.30-5 ish
Sorry for all the posts...
Have a gross question (lol) - for those of you whose periods have returned - how was the first one? I thought it was coming back as I had some spotting on Saturday/Sunday really lightly but I was expecting the first period to be really crampy and heavy. I took a pregnant test on Friday which was 14dpo which came back negative but maybe that was too early to test?? Going to get another hpt tomorrow as I will be 19dpo so you would think that if I was pregnant it would definitely show up - the period, or lackthereof just got me thinking as spotting can be an early pregnancy sign! Eeeek!
I had spotting SL for one month, next month like a short period and the next two months nil! I don't get it, but I'm definitely not pg.. I'm still waiting for it to come back
Mine period has just been spotting so far... On and off for 2 weeks.
Ivy got her first tooth yay!!
SL I think it would work wonders if you push that last nap back to 230, but to do that you might need to adjust the other naps.
Our routine is pretty good these days... Especially no wake ups at night (hope I don't jinx him!)
Back down 9am sleeps for about 1.5hours
Awake from 10:30 till about 12:30/1 sleeps about 1.5hours
Awake from 2:30 till 4
Back down at 4 for about 30 mins/ 45 mins (sometimes he'll go down at 3:30 & have 1.5hours in this time)
On playgroup days & swimming we change naps to suit but that's a normal day when we are home 😀
SL it probably took 3 or 4 cycles for me to get back to 'normal' good luck though, might be a lovely surprise!
I'm just waiting for Myles 6th tooth to pop through, it's been 1 a week for 5 weeks so far so I don't think it will be too far away!
Well ladies. Wish I could say things have improved but tbh we've gone from **** to worse. Wishing I'd resigned myself to cuddling AJ to sleep and co-sleeping forever. I think I am now borderline pnd but am definitely tired and stressed. Dh who has suffered from depression and anxiety in the past is under lots of work stress atm had reached his tolerance of dealing with me and has suggested we take a break. So here I am in a country away from all family and friends with no support other than dh and he's talking about taking that away too. I'm devastated.
We are working on a new nap routine, so far without any success. We get half an hour of protesting and crying and then we stop and either play for a bit and try again or just do whatever works. I'm still struggling with the crying and usually end up a complete bawling mess myself. I tried to see the Dr yesterday for a referral to Tresillian but their Internet was down and still is though he's not working today anyway. He also did no screening for pnd or anything. So another day to wait. I have booked a private day stay where the mchn comes to your home. She's coming this afternoon so hopefully will be able to help.
Hmm time to get the house sprayed for spiders. One just walked across the nursing pillow :-(.
Our routine is loosely based around
Up around 6.30-7
Nap 8.30/9. Was getting 45 (90 if I co slept) now 30
Nap 1 was getting 45 now 30-45
Nap 4 was getting 2.5 hrs Co sleeping now 1-1.5
Solids 5.30 then bath etc
Milk 6.30 then bed.
Taking us 2 hrs to get him to bed.
Now wakes 1-2 x overnight when has slept through since almost forever.
It is also now impossible to transfer him without waking.
Yes SL AJ has a dilated kidney. Just had the 6 month ultrasound. Still there but much improved. Follow up u/s in another 6 months. Hooray some good news! :-)
Phew. Sorry for the novel. I'm off to Co sleep AJ to sleep so I can rest before the mchn comes.
Good luck at Tresillian Nala. Hope it goes well xx
I hope you get into sleep school soon, when they start self settling and sleeping it really helps your relationship. Having a little freedom to have you time, also you get that nighttime relaxation back with your partner.
It really isn't easy, having a baby has put a strain on our relationship as well. I hope you get the help you need soon, so you can work on your relationship.
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