14 year old brother is bothering 6 year old sister
I firstly wonder how you would handle it
eg talk to him about rules, respect, how he would feel,
set boundaries that if it happens again then there will be consequences
eg no tv no computer that night etc
i also wonder if it can lead to a child choosing an abusive husband later in life as i've seen children who were abused by older brothers in the way of emotionally driven nuts constantly or being annoyed constantly, using their size etc to constantly drive the sister nuts whether it was playing soccer and basketball but constnatly taking ball off the sister and making her frustrated,
i wonder then if they then go and marry a partner who will also abuse them in some way and give them that feeling of being constnatly frustrated.
but either way i'm looking for how to handle it now as i dont think its fair or humane to just let it keep happeneing.
i do tell them to separate but they like hanging around each other but then drive each other nuts at times.
how much is normal, how much should i ignore, how much should i talk about and try to act on with consequences or praise depending on if they were kind of frustrating to their younger sibling. they are 14 and younger sibling is 6