You ladies are making me feel better about my DH!!! He puts his dirty washing in the hamper, cooks most nights and picks up after himself *usually*.
Having said that I cooked a roast tonight and made him clean the kitchen and you'd never believe the complaining about not being able to stack the DISHWASHER!!! I ended up doing it to shut him up lol!!!
I want competent house trained boys and my DS1 is a pro at unstacking and restacking the dishwasher, putting dirty clothes out to be washed, stripping his own bed and cleaning the toy room. I often catch myself almost saying to him "I'm not your mother" like I do to DH but can't say that so it's "I'm not your slave"! He's a well trained 5 year old!!!