When ex H and I decided to split he moved back down to Sydney ( 4 hours from here) 7 years ago. We have been meeting half way every school holidays since then. We did mediation and it was decided that for him to see his kids he had to be emotionally, financially and physically invoved with them. It has been ok I mean phone calls on birthdays and Christmas and the day before they are due to go down. I have picked up work so last few times I have organised different days or times but have given him plenty of notice.
School holidays start next week but I have not heard boo from him since last school holidays and have not received any child support.. He told me he had changed jobs last time and I said to him he had to let them know. I have sent him text messages the last few weeks and no reply.
So when ( its bound to happen next week) he calls to organise a time do I send the kids or tell him NO..
Before you ask the kids have asked and I have said I don't know yet as dad hasn't called , They arnt fussed if they go or not its more I feel obligated as he is their dad but doesn't make the effort the 10 weeks inbetween,.
So my question is do I send them or not??????