AFM- well hubby called and apologised to me. He said he knew it was wrong that he didn't see my calls and should have been more careful/aware as it could have been an emergency. His friend won some money and bought him drinks, hence he'd had quite a lot! I said he's 40 yrs old now, not a teenager, with one kid and one on the way so needs to be a bit more responsible! Anyway, we're ok now. But I feel so incredibly tired and have a late home visit to do before I get home. Will definately make sure he cooks dinner and puts Toby to bed, as per your suggestion Maybee Baybee!