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    Quote Originally Posted by sunnyflower View Post
    No I don't think you have the right to tell another adult what to do with their body ...

    I wouldn't be with a smoker anyway, I'd just leave.
    Really?? So if he was otherwise PERFECT, you would leave....just because he smokes??? I find that incredible to be honest.

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    p.s Hollywood; how exciting ^_^ so happy for you

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    I was a smoker when DH and I started dating. We got engaged, planned our life together etc. he always made it clear he didn't like me smoking. He told me he would not ttc until I quit. I had my last smoke on the morning of our wedding day 6.5yrs ago. I think that it affects more than just the smoker, so yes partner can ask other to stop.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zombie_eyes View Post
    p.s Hollywood; how exciting ^_^ so happy for you
    Squeee!! Yes it is! He's my beautiful American boy <3

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    And it's so ironic that my username is now relevant to where he grew up! A bit spooky!

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    awesome! does he have family back home? travellllll niceeeee!!!!

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    Yes I think so. DP smoked when we met and that was fine. But now we have children and things aren't the same anymore so that point it moot to me.

    He quit once for a year and then started again. He has quit again for a number of months and if he starts again I will leave until he quits.

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    awesome! does he have family back home? travellllll niceeeee!!!!
    Yep, they're nearly all in L.A. and also in Jamaica (he's black....and pretty hot!!). He wants to fly his mum over for a visit soon.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hollywood View Post
    Really?? So if he was otherwise PERFECT, you would leave....just because he smokes??? I find that incredible to be honest.
    That's ok you can find it incredible...my mother has smoked all her life and she now has emphysema...unless she stops smoking she will be dead within 10 years. I despise smokers and cigarettes...they are among some of the the most selfish people on the planet. I also work as a nurse and have watched numerous pts struggle to breathe and then pass away from smoking related illnesses...

    Nothing would EVER entice me to date a smoker. I don't care if he's Gods gift to women...he ain't getting near me...

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    Yep... when I met DH he had said he didn't smoke. .. but was secretly. .. that aside it was deal breaker for me. I said I won't be with a smoker. .. is an addiction that had to go.
    He quit because he wanted to be with me more than being with cigarettes.

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