how would you want to be told by a friend that they are pregnant? What could they say that would be kind/painful?
Sorry, not sure what section to put this in. A friend of mine lost her precious, almost 4 month old baby, and we attended the funeral a few weeks ago. They would love another baby but are currently seeing geneticists as baby died of an undiagnosed neuro condition and they want to make sure it wasn't something they can pass on to another, so they aren't looking at even trying for at least a year. I'm 14 weeks pregnant and I want to let her know before she finds out some other way. I can't call her because I am guaranteed to bawl about it and she's so lovely, she'd probably feel bad for me! I'm trying to do an email but can't think of what to write. Even just typing this is making me tear up.