Just wondering if anyone has been (or is in) a similar situation that I am facing at the moment..
Last year I found out I had a amh level of <1 and that IVF would be our best option to have another child. Initially I was not even interested in going to the FS appointments but DH urged me to go and we are now at the point of me just taking the pill to get my cycle in order to start injections.
HOWEVER DH has now decided that he does not want to do IVF and that he is happy with having one child. His reasoning is money (which we have enough for one round which is all I want to do) and I think his fear of it just not working (but I am guessing)
I want to go ahead with one cycle so that I will not spend the rest of my life wondering what if. But he refuses to do it and now I have so much anger towards him I don't even want to be in the same room as him. I have told him I don't want him to regret this decision and he admits he probably will regret it.
We are seeing a psychologist who I started seeing for other issues and she is helping us work through things, but I am finding it so hard to talk and be around my DH now and he refuses to talk about this or any of our issues.
I really don't know how much longer we are going to last, the decision to do IVF and the lack of communication is tearing our relationship apart.
Has anyone else had a partner NOT want to do IVF while you did? All of my friends that have gone through IVF had partners that wanted a baby also.
I don't know how to accept I am only going to have one child. (please don't say be thankful for the one you have, I realise how lucky I am)