cassieh I don't understand how you can be so indignant and accuse people of being rude when you basically said the exact same thing, albeit for the opposite type of parenting style.
Honestly, I think you need to step back. A lot of your posts come across as fairly judgmental IMO. You haven't been a parent very long and I'm glad it's going well for you. But the longer you're a parent, the more you will realise that a lot of that is down to luck and not just because you're an awesome parent (not saying you're not).
Some people don't have easy experiences or cope with things as well as others. As mothers we should support each other. Saying you "hate" mothers who parent different to you is pretty off.