I judge parents who don't look after their kids properly. What does this mean? Basically if the child is happy, healthy, loved and generally well adjusted and has a good self esteem, polite and well mannered. .. them they are obviously being looked after and why would I judge that.
There have been comments about routine. .. which I ascribe to the well. Kids thrive on consistency and knowing what's expected. But I don't judge others who don't use routines.
If I saw a parent swear or hit their child. . or their kids are running around inappropriate places where they could hurt others or themselves. ..or they are rude or swearing at others I do judge that.
I also. .. and I'm probably going to be hated for this. .. but I judge parents whose kids are grossly overweight. I think it's a parental responsibility to teach kids how to look after themselves. .. and food etc is part of that. And I say this as someone who does struggle with weight.