Last edited by WiseOldOwl; 27-06-2013 at 07:23.
The morning after pill may not have even worked unfortunately:/
Good luck with everything xx
I have just read through this thread, and like everyone else want to send you many many
You sound like an amazingly strong and brave woman, and I am so sorry you have gone through and are going through such a traumatic experience.
I just wanted to respond to some of your comments where you are worried about not bonding with the baby. I have two planned and much wanted children, and I can honestly say I didn't bond with either of them during pregnancy. Truth be told I didn't truly bond with either of them until well after they were born - I cared for them and was in awe of them and I didn't have pnd or anything, I just had to get to know them for that bond to really develop. I know of many people who say the same thing.
I just wanted to say it is totally normal to take time to bond with your baby so don't put unrealistic expectations on yourself now. As you already said, you are a lot busier now than with your first pregnancy too!. Just because you don't feel like you have bonded now doesn't mean you won't.
Look after yourself and your amazing daughter
Eta - I can't see where your daughter will have to wait until she's 18 though? I think she would benefit from the financial support right now. How awful
How are you feeling atm, SoC? Are you getting the emotional support that you need?
Just read your original post. How awful! So sorry.
Sending you lots of hugs. It's all I can offer you. I often think about you even though we're complete strangers.
Hope you both are ok.
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